7 practices to avoid becoming a self-absorbed, narcissistic leader

Last blog I shared 4 early warning signs about narcissism in my own life and leadership.  Here are 7 practices I have learned to keep a tender heart and avoid my natural tendency to become self-absorbed: 1.  Be a continual learner.  I need to stay humble and hungry to learn, especially from and with others.... Continue Reading →

4 early warning signs of a narcissistic leader

Betrayal is inevitable and certain for any leader.  What is uncertain, however is our response to it.  I have learned that not facing wounds of betrayal from abandonment or abuse causes me to build up walls of defenses for self protection.  The result over time is that I become self focused. OK, we are all narcissistic-the... Continue Reading →

Leadership Lessons along the journey: Betrayal

Betrayal:  A third universal challenge that leaders face is betrayal.  If you remember, I have been cataloging some lessons of my leadership journey over the past couple decades according to Allender’s 5 universal leadership challenges in Leading with a Limp.  The first two, crisis and complexity were rough, but betrayal has been even harder. I... Continue Reading →

Leadership Lessons along the journey: Crisis

Crisis:  Allender says, “Crisis has a way of sneaking up and biting you from behind.  It exposes either your lack of preparation or the foolishness of your presumption of security.” [1] I have certainly found that to be true in my journey of leadership.  Crisis actually originates from a Greek word meaning “to sift or... Continue Reading →

Leadership lessons along the journey

Dan Allender states it simply, “If you’re a leader, you’re in the battle of your life.” [1]  When my wife and I accepted the job as national leaders in an organization, our boss commented that it would be a couple of the hardest years of our life.  I am not sure if his comment was because... Continue Reading →

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